Quote Originally Posted by voxelectronica View Post
It's actually a very intense turn on. I've refused to have a submissive who will not submit their orientation. Even if I don't force the point I know I want the option of assigning an orientation.

I agree that submissive trumps any other orientation and even the straightest male submissive I've run across who will swear up and down that they will not entertain other men will change their tune the minute you say "okay well then we can't do this".
I agree.

By that I mean, I don't believe a woman who submits to a domme has to necessarily be a lesbian, (or bi-sexual or even bi-curious,) but she will need to be "domme-curious" at least.

And... she will undoubtedly be forced to have some kind of girl-on-girl sexual interaction (otherwise just go find a female supervisor or boss to work for.)

Now, whether that sex is totally for the purpose of humiliation (because of the sapphic aspect,) or for the pleasure of the domme or other onlookers (if there is an exhibitionist aspect,) it is, as vox has said, a very intense turn-on.

I have a domme friend who has both male and female subs, and her descriptions of using a strap-on on either of them is exceptionally erotic... and I have zero interest in men, but yeah, I wouldn't mind seeing her use her boy toy.

I also agree that submission trumps other orientation limits. What might start out as a hard limit (heh) may well soften with time if the domme insists she doesn't want a submissive with that particular limit.