This is my first post here, but i must agree with all of those. The other thing is that about a year ago Master had to do an interview for a class He was taking, and i became the subject. Although real names were not used, it became a huge thing, and we both decided that it was essentially time to come out of the closet. This being said, my biggest pet peeve is Dom/mes online who message me on an IM and immediately expect me to call them by a title. No offense, but i firmly believe a Dom/me, Master, Mistress, sub, slave, etc... should EARN the title given them. If a guy is called Sir by his girlfriend, that's fine, but don'e expect me to.