Top/bottom vs D/s

[blythe spirit]

Whenever I'm referring to topping/bottoming or anything of a BDSM nature, I'm referring to real life. For some people, D/s is a lifestyle...meaning that they engage in dominance and submission within a relationship, not just in the bedroom. It goes beyond kinky sex and encompasses everyday activities.

So if you're a top or a bottom, you're just playing in the bedroom?