Quote Originally Posted by Cinquieme View Post
I like him to be in control.

I am very opposed to being submissive/subordinate in other aspects of the relationship, but it is such a turn on in bed. What does this mean? I don't understand it.
All it means is that you are into BDSM, not Ds on a 24 hour basis. A lot of people are like that. The myth that it is all about being a slave in all of your life is for most people just that - a myth.

Liking being restrained or in bondage does not necessarily mean that one is submissive at all, though you can be.

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