I have to say that i am in the same spot. i feel that in my life i have always been pushed and shoved and that some one else has been in control of my life and Ive noticed that, and taken into consideration that I was experiencing Domination.

i feel that with my perspective on things that i am a sub whom Likes to Dominate people by standing assertive for myself and not letting them into my life so that they can control me. But I also notice that i have a lot of Dominant desires that i have to find an outlet for sexually.