Slave or sub, the choice is still yours. A good Master would not want the first slave that would mindlessly submit to him, but the one that chose him for a specific reason. There needs to be trust and connection between a Master and his slave for the relationship to grow.

You hare the responsibilty as the slave to be certain that the Master you are with is one that you respect, trust and want to grow in your submission and obedience with.

Master's are not like buses.. you can't just take the next one that comes along. That is unwise, unsafe and unfair to the Master.

You find the right one, and the desire to be his and be completely submissive will come along with that connection. You choose the wrong one, and you will be fight it and him.