Surprise Me,

Welcome to O/our little world of kink. I love to see peopel investigating what really amkes them tick. Congratulations on finding yoruself.


For what its worth, BDSM is for the individual participants and thier particular tastes and comfort zones. Just because you do not feel you would personaly enjoy "extreme" aspects of play, does not mean anything. It is your comfort level(s) that matter.

I do beleive you know youa re submissive. That does not mean you have to enjoy pain, there are many peopel who do not. Of course, around here there are those who do enjoy the hot kiss of pain.

Find what you and your partner are comfortable with, and go with that.

Keep it safe, sane, and consensual; and enjoy your self discovery.

~LT~