Not wanting to be any more obnoxious than absolutely neccessary, I have to not that e.e. norcod has, perhaps inadvertantly, brought up the subject of how to define a kink (and who defines it -- the webmaster, I would presume).
He is very anti-pedo, but then suggests that pedo covers ages 11 and under. Another site I frequent defines it as age 15 and under and yet another as 13 and under. "It is a puzzlement."
I have my own 'squicks' -- pedo, scat and M/m -- but I just don't read them.
By the way, people who like stories of ages 12 and under should check out some of the collections under the ASSTR/org archive umbrella. The format is a lot harder on the eyes than BDSMLibrary, and the indexing is nearly impossible, but the selection is enormous.