So how well do you know this young lady? How far have you gone with her so far?

Do you still want to be friends with her afterwards...

I wouldn't do any of the above with someone unless I had a trust & rappoir over a period of time. Too much too soon is the best way to cause upset & disappointment.

Think about this- if you do something that tickles her fancy, she may want more another time. An hour with a feather would drive anyone nuts, unless you were very very experienced.

'Slow & steady wins the race,' said the tortoise to the hare.

That's my humble opinion, I'm no expert- but then who is?

Tojo