i got lucky i met my owner and his wife in a club yrs ago, (not a bdsm club) a kinda rave/ goth bar, he had her on a leash, they were both gothed out so it wasnt really strange for her to be on the leash, what made them stand out to me was more how they acted, very casual, yet she was obviously his in more ways than a vanilla one, it was just the way she moved as if preforming for him the way he sat at the bar and she stood there, allowing him to lead her around etc, very stiring within me, idk why i was just kinda drawn to them

basically it was pure chance, though i might say there are a higher precentage of people in the goth/punk scene that share this way of life or at least it seems that way to me, i also know there are a lot of people that are not into that subclulture and would probably disagree,

other than bdsm relationships that introduced other bdsm relationships to me (some of which were at fetish balls etc, though none from a "munch as i have never attended one), i would have to say it was pure chance on my part