Make them wait. Many people just 'go for it' & as soon as they can,they have the orgasm.

If you stop or slow down, gradually increasing the time, it's often enough.

It always amazes me to hear of people who have never tried something so simple.

One of my girls had the first multiple one of her life a few weeks ago.
What the heck, I might as well bare my soul....

I asked her to think of me as she played with herself. I've only ever done that once before.

I said 'Close your eyes & imagine it's my hands touching you- touch your face & your lips as well' & so forth. This wasn't even in real time, it was a request for later. That worked.

Tojo