The first submissive thing that I did was to meet my lover at the door of my appartment completely naked. Thus we spent the afternoon together. I cooked, had dinner, watched TV and read to my lover while I contemplated the difference clothes can make. I felt so helpless, so submissive yet so true to myself, overcoming my shyness in front of a fully clothed person. I loved the feeling. To this day the sexiest thing I can say to my lover is "I love being naked next to you"