Sir Russell
I've completed the questionnaire and would appreciate your feedback. As you will see I have little real life experience, but I am going to my first munch this evening and wanted to capture my baseline....maybe one day I'll be able to look back on this and smile. I do expect it to change.
I've tried to distinguish ratings between an activity I receive and the same activity I would give to my sub. eg Clothespins - I would rate on myself as 3 but as a 5 if I were placing them on my sub.
I've answered from a Dom's perspective.
I will send you my subs answers tomorrow.
Thanks,
Sardis
Abrasion: NO 2
Age play: NO 2
Anal sex: YES 5
Anal plugs (small): NO 3 ....but 4 if for my sub
Anal plugs (large): NO 3 ....but 4 if for my sub
Anal plug (public, under clothes): NO 4 if for my sub
Animal roles: NO 1
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): NO 3 but 5 if for my sub
Asphyxiation: NO 3 could go either way on this
Auctioned for charity: NO 1
Bathroom use control: NO 1
Bestiality: NO No...but 3 if for voyeurism
Beating (soft): yes 1 but 4 if for my sub
Beating (hard): NO but 4 if for my sub
Blindfolds: YES 4
Being serviced (sexual): YES 5
Being bitten: NO 3
Breast/chest bondage: NO 2
Breath control: NO 3
Branding: NO 1
Boot worship: NO 1
Bondage (light): YES 3 but 5 if for my sub
Bondage (heavy): NO 2 but 5 if for my sub
Bondage (multi-day): NO 2 3 for my sub
Bondage (public, under clothing): No 1 ...but 4 if for my sub
Breast whipping: no ....but 5 if for my sub
Brown showers (scat): NO NO
Cages (locked inside of): NO 2... 4 if for my sub
Caning: NO 2...if 5 for my sub
Catheterization: NO 1
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): NO 2
Chastity belts: NO 2
Chauffeuring: NO 1
Choking: NO 1
Clothespins: Yes 3 but 5 if for my sub
Cock worship: NO n/a
Collars (worn in private): NO 2 but 5 if on my sub
Collars (worn in public): NO 2 but 5 if on my sub
Competitions (with other Subs): NO 3
Corsets (wearing): NO 1 but 4 if on my sub
Cuffs: NO 2 but 4 if on my sub
Cuffs (metal): NO 2 but 4 if on my sub
Cutting: NO 2 if my sub needed it
Dilation: NO 3
Double penetration: NO 4
Electricity: NO 1
Enemas: NO 0
Enforced chastity: NO 1 ..but 4 if on my sub
Examinations (physical): NO 3
Exercise (forced/required): NO 2
Exhibitionism (friends): NO 2
Exhibitionism (strangers): NO 2
Eye contact restrictions: yes 2.. but 5 if for my sub
Face slapping: NO 2... 4 if on my sub
Fantasy abandonment: NO 1.... 4 on my sub
Fantasy rape: NO 0 ... 4 if on my sub
Fantasy gang-rape: NO 4 if on my sub
Fisting (anal): NO 2
Fisting (vaginal): NO 3
Following orders: NO 1 ..5 if for my sub
Foot worship: NO 2
Forced dressing: NO 2.. 4 for my sub
Forced homosexuality: NO 0
Forced masturbation: NO 3.. 5 for my sub
Forced nudity (private): NO 2 3 for my sub
Forced nudity (around others): NO 2 4 for my sub
Forced servitude: NO 2... 5 for my sub
Full head hoods: NO 2 4 if on my sub
Gags (cloth): No 2 4 if on my sub
Gags (rubber): No 2 4 if on my sub
Gags (tape): No 2 4 if on my sub
Gates of Hell (male) N/A
Genital sex: YES 5
Given away to another Dom (temp): n/a 3 for my sub
Given away to another Dom (perm): NO NO
Golden showers: NO 1
Hairbrush spankings: YES 5 if on my sub
Hair pulling: NO 3 if on my sub
Hand jobs (giving): YES 4
Hand jobs (receiving): YES 5
Harems (serving w/other subs): n/a but 4 if for my sub
Harnessing (leather): NO 4 if for my sub
Harnessing (rope): NO 4 if for my sub
Having food chosen for you: NO 2...3 for my sub
Having clothing chosen for you: NO 3 4 for my sub
Head (giving fellatio): N/A
Head (receiving fellatio)for males only YES 5
High heel worship: N/A
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): NO 3...
Hot oils (on genitals): NO 3
Hot waxing: NO 3
Housework (doing): NO 1
Human puppy dog: NO 0
Humiliation (private): NO 1
Humiliation (public): NO 1
Hypnotism: Yes 3...not sure this works on me...would like to try on my sub
Ice cubes: yes 4
Infantilism: NO 1
Initiation rites: NO 3 4 if for my sub
Injections: NO 1
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: NO 3
Interrogations: NO 2
Kidnapping: NO 1
Kneeling: Yes 2.. 5 if for my sub
Leather clothing: NO 3
restraints: Yes 5 if on my sub
Lectures for misbehavior: NO 3 if on my sub
Licking (non-sexual): yes 3
Manacles & Irons: NO 4 if for my sub
Manicures (giving): NO 1
Massage (giving): YES 4
Massage (receiving): YES 4
Medical scenes: NO 1
Modeling for erotic photos: NO 3...
Mouth bits: NO 1...4 for my sub
Mummification: NO 1
Nipple clamps: Yes 5 if on my sub
Nipple weights: NO 4 if on my sub
Oral/anal play (rimming): yes 3
Over-the-knee spanking: YES 5 if my sub is over my knee
Orgasm denial: Yes 2...4 for my sub
Orgasm control: Yes 2...5 for my sub
Outdoor scenes: NO 3
Outdoor sex: Yes 4
Phone sex (serving Dom): Yes 4
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): NO 3 if for for my sub
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): NO 2
Piercing (permanent): NO 2
Prison scenes NO 1
Pony slave: NO 3 if pony is my sub
Public exposure: NO 2
Pussy/cock whipping: Yes 4
Pussy worship: No 1
Riding crops: Yes 5 if on my sub
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): NO 3
Rituals: NO 4
Religious scenes: NO 1
Restrictive rules on behavior: Yes 5 for my sub
Rubber/latex clothing: NO 3
Rope body harness: NO 3 for my sub
Saran wrapping: NO 2
Scratching – getting: NO 2
Scratching – giving: NO 2
Sensory deprivation: Yes 2 ....5 if on my sub
Serving: NO 4 if from my sub (as for all serving)
Serving as art: NO 3
Serving as ashtray: NO 1
Serving as furniture: NO 1
Serving as a maid: NO 4
Serving as toilet: NO 1
Serving as waitress/waiter: NO 4
Serving orally (sexual): YES 5
Serving other Doms (supervised): NO 3
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): NO 1
Sexual deprivation (short term): NO 3
Sexual deprivation (long term): NO 1
Shaving (body hair): Yes 4
Shaving (head hair): NO 1
Sleep deprivation: NO 1
Sleepsacks: NO 1
Slutty clothing (private): Yes 4 for my sub
Slutty clothing (public): NO 3 for my sub
Spanking: YES 5 giving to my sub
Spandex clothing: NO 2
Speech restrictions (when, what): NO 5 if for my sub
Speculums (Anal): NO 1 .... 3 for my sub
Speculums (vaginal): NO 3
Spreader bars: NO 1...5 for my sub
Standing in corner: NO 4
Stocks (adjustable): NO 4 for my sub
Straight jackets: NO 1....3 for my sub
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): N/A...3 for my sub
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): NO 3 for my sub
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): NO 1 3 for my sub
Strapping (full body beating): NO 0... 3 for my sub
Suspension (upright); NO 1 3 for my sub
Suspension (inverted): NO 1 3 for my sub
Suspension (horizontal): NO 1 3 for my sub
Supplying new partners for Dom: No 3 if sub providing
Swallowing semen: NO 1..5 for my sub
Swallowing urine: NO 1
Swapping (with one other couple): NO 2
Swinging (multiple couples): NO 2
Tattooing: NO 3
Teasing: NO 2
Tickling: NO 1
Triple penetration: NO 3 for my sub
Uniforms: NO 3
Including others: NO 3
Vaginal dildo: N/A
Verbal humiliation: NO 0
Vibrator on genitals: Yes 4
Voyeurism (watching others): NO 3
Voyeurism (your slave w/others): NO 3
Video (watching others): Yes 4
Video (recordings of you): NO 3
Water torture: NO 2
Wearing symbolic jewelry: Yes 4
Whipping Yes 1 4 if on my sub
Wooden paddles: Yes 2 5 if on my sub
Wrestling: NO 2