I'm probably wasting my time with this post... but whatever..
I hear you, abitbent. =)

When I first started reading and coming here to this forum, I thought I was purely submissive. Now, I'm not so sure. The stories I read where males are submissive. certainly are interesting to say the least.

As far as why some males are submissive, well that is only for them to say. We all have our own things that turn us on and only we know the motivation or reason.

Mobius I think plays the devil's advocate from time to time. He likes to rile people up.

Even if he does believe everything he says. He wouldn't say it if he weren't trying to get the pot boiling.

Am I right, Mobius?

And to get back on the thread, Lady Amanda, I would be interested in knowing what works for you with your male sub. I doubt I'll ever have the opportunity to be a dominant over a male, but I am always interested. It all interests me.