Originally posted by Lord Thomas

Back to the original question posed by Lady Amanda.... Domming is Domming. Gender really is once again irrelavant. OK, there are physiological differences. Yes, breast bondage will be a limited use in your repertoire, but you can move on to testicular bondage easily enough. Go back to basics, find out what your masculine subby wants and needs and give it to him, just as you would were he a female submissive. Perhaps, your new boy will have a high tolerance for pain and like to see if he can snap your favorite cane with his shoulders, perhaps he is one who does not enjoy pain. Find out and enjoy him as you would any submissive.
I would have to total agree with you Lord T. I have worked with and Toped both men and women and I would have to say that the approach I take is pretty much the same across the board. Finding what my sub wants and giving it to them. I have both male and females subs that have wanted me to delve into thier minds and take the slow, building trust, Mental aspect to it....and I have had both male and female subs that just wanted to get to the fun of a scene.

I have to admit I have fun Toping and tormenting both sexes. In general I have found men to be more focused on the sexual aspect of the scene or the relation, and women crave more of the mental aspect...but that in no way is a guarantee=) I have had female subs that just wanted me to flog and whip them then fuck them to multiple orgasims....I can also say I have had one male that I came very close to putting under collar due to the depth of the relation we had. Just as deep as a relation as I have had with any of my other slaves I had under collar in my life.

All I can say is have fun with it. Exploring and discovering your partners boundries is half the fun of any D/s relation