^___^ I’m so new to all this it’s a wonder than not every item had a ‘no’ beside it. But, it seems quite interesting so here’s my two cents.

Abrasion: yes 3
Age play: no 1
Anal sex: yes 4
Anal plugs (small): yes 3
Anal plugs (large): no probably 3
Anal plug (public, under clothes): yes 3
Animal roles: no 1
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): yes 2
Asphyxiation: no 0
Auctioned for charity: yes 2
Bathroom use control: no 1
Bestiality: no 1
Beating (soft): yes 3
Beating (hard): no 2
Blindfolds: yes 2
Being serviced (sexual): yes 3
Being bitten: can’t remember -__-;; 3
Breast/chest bondage: no 2
Breath control: no 1
Branding: no NO. I might change to 2 if it’s with someone I would spend the rest of my life with.
Boot worship: no 2
Bondage (light): yes 3
Bondage (heavy): no 2
Bondage (multi-day): no 2
Bondage (public, under clothing): yes 3
Bondage and Sex: yes 3
Breast whipping: no 2
Brown showers (scat): no NO
Cages (locked inside of): no 2
Caning: no 4
Catheterization: Don’t know what this is, so no.
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): no 3
Chastity belts: no 3
Chauffeuring: no 2
Choking: no 1
Clothespins breast/nipples: no 3
Clothespins labia lips/clit: no 2
Clothespins body: no 2
Cock worship: yes 3
Collars (worn in private): no 2
Collars (worn in public): no 2
Competitions (with other Subs :no 2
Corsets (wearing): :no 2
Cuffs: yes 3
Cuffs (metal): yes 3
Cutting: :no 1
Dilation: :Can’t remember what this is. -__-;;
Double penetration: :no 0
Electricity: :no 1
Enemas: :no 0
Enforced chastity: :no 3
Examinations (physical): :no 2
Exercise (forced/required): :no 2
Exhibitionism (friends): :no 2
Exhibitionism (strangers): :no 1
Eye contact restrictions: :no 2
Face slapping: :no 2
Fantasy abandonment: :no 0 – childhood fear, it depends on what level this is carried out
Fantasy rape: :no 2
Fantasy forced deep throat: :no 2 (I can’t understand the ‘forced’ part)
Fantasy forced cunt licking: :no 2
Fantasy forced rape anal: :no 2
Fantasy gang-rape: :no 2
Fisting (anal): :no 1
Fisting (vaginal): :no 2
Flogging: yes 4
Following hand signals: :no 3
Following orders: yes 4
Foot worship: :no 2
Forced dressing: yes 3
Forced homosexuality: :no (I’m bi. No forced there. Lol)
Forced masturbation: yes 3
Forced nudity (private): yes 3
Forced nudity (around others): :no 1
Forced servitude: yes 3
Full head hoods: :no 0
Gags (cloth): yes 3
Gags (penis shaped): :no 2 (is it terribly different from any other type of gags?)
Gags (rubber): :no 2
Gags (tape): yes 3
Gates of Hell: :no 2
Genital sex: :no 2
Given away to another Dom (temp): :no 2
Given away to another Domme (temp): yes 2
Given away to another Dom (perm): :no 0
Given away to another Domme (perm): :no 0
Golden showers: :no NO
Greetings rituals: :no 3
Hairbrush spankings: yes 5
Hair pulling: yes 3
Hand jobs (giving): yes 3
Hand jobs (receiving): :no 3
Harems (serving w/other subs): no 2
Harnessing (leather): :no 3
Harnessing (rope): :no 3
Having food chosen for you: yes 3
Having clothing chosen for you: yes 3
Head (giving cunnilingus): :yes 3
Head (giving fellatio): yes 3
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): yes 3
Head (receiving fellatio male only): n/a
High heel worship: :no 2
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): :no 2
Hot oils (on genitals): :no 2
Hot waxing: :no 2
Housework (doing): yes 2
Human puppy dog: :no 1
Humiliation (private): :no 2-3 depends on the person
Humiliation (public): :no 1
Hypnotism: :no (Don’t know what this is, really. Lol)
Ice cubes: yes 4
Infantilism: :no 1
Initiation rites: :no 2
Injections: :no (Depends on what, might range from NO – 2)
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: yes 4
Interrogations: yes 4
Kidnapping: :no 3
Kneeling: yes 3
Leather clothing: yes 3
restraints chains: :no 3
restraints leather: yes 3
restraints rope: yes 3
Lectures for misbehavior: yes 3
Licking (non-sexual): yes 2
Manacles & Irons: yes 3
Manicures (giving): yes 3
Massage (giving): yes 4
Massage (receiving): no (everyone I’ve met till now didn’t know how to give massages so I don’t know. Probably 3-4)
Medical scenes: no 1 – depends. I have some bad memories of hospitals.

Modeling for erotic photos: :no NO
Modeling for erotic videos: :no NO
Mouth bits: :no 2
Mummification: :no (Don’t know what this entails)
Nipple clamps: :no 3
Nipple cloths pins: :no 3
Nipple weights: :no 3
Oral/anal play (rimming): :no 3
Over-the-knee spanking: yes 5
Orgasm denial: yes 4
Orgasm control: yes 5
Outdoor scenes: :no4
Outdoor sex: :no 4
Phone sex (serving Dom): :no 2
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): :no 2
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): :no 2
Piercing (permanent): :no 2
Prison scenes: :no 2
Pony slave: :no 2
Public exposure: :no 1
Public tasks: :no 3
Pussy/cock whipping: :no 2
Pussy worship: :no 2
Riding crops: yes 4
Riding the "horse" : No idea what this is
Rituals: :no 4
Religious scenes: :no 3
Restrictive rules on behavior: :no 4
Rubber/latex clothing: :no 2 – 3
Rope body harness: :no 3
Saran wrapping: :no 3
Scratching – getting: :no 3
Scratching – giving: :no (I sometimes do so unintentionally so I’m not quite sure what this falls under)
Sensory deprivation: :no 3
Serving: :no 4
Serving as art: :no 4
Serving as ashtray: :no 2
Serving as furniture: :no 2
Serving as a maid: :no 3
Serving as toilet: :no NO
Serving as waitress/waiter: :yes 3
Serving orally (sexual): :yes 4
Serving other Doms (supervised): :no 2
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): :yes 2
Sexual deprivation (short term): yes 4
Sexual deprivation (long term): :no 2
Shaving (body hair): :no 2 (I’m asian, not much to shave. Lol)
Shaving (head hair): :no 2
Shaving (pubic hair): :no 0
Sleep deprivation: :no 2
Sleep-sacks: :no No idea what this is.
Slutty clothing (private): :no 3
Slutty clothing (public): :no 2
Spanking in private: yes 5
Spanking in public: :no 4
Spanking in bdsm parties: :no 5
Spanking pleasure:yes 5
Spandex clothing: :no 2
Speech restrictions (when, what): yes 3
Speculums (Anal): :no 3
Speculums (vaginal): :no 3
Spreader bars: :no 3
Standing in corner: yes 3
Stocks (adjustable): :no 2
Stocks (fixed): :no 2
Straight jackets: :no 2
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): :no 2
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): :no 3
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): :no 2
Strapping (full body beating): :no 2
Suspension (upright); :no 2
Suspension (inverted): :no 2
Suspension (horizontal): :no 2
Supplying new partners for Dom: :no 2
Swallowing semen: yes 2
Swallowing urine: :no NO
Swapping (with one other couple): :no 1
Swinging (multiple couples): :no 1
Tattooing: :no 1-2 (depends on what and where it is)
Teasing: yes 2
Tickling: yes 2
Triple penetration: :no 1
Triple penetration by 3 males: :no 1
Uniforms: :no 2
Including others: :no 2
Vaginal dildo: :no 2
Verbal humiliation: :no 1 - 2 (After a certain time, I tend to get irrationally angry. So, lol, it depends.)
Vibrator on genitals: :no 2
Voyeurism (watching others): :no 2
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): :no 1
Video (watching others): :no 1 (What’s the point?)
Video (recordings of you): :no (There would be no recordings.)
Water torture: :no 1
Wearing symbolic jewelry: :no 3
Whipping: :no 4
Wooden paddles: yes 5
Wrestling: :no (Not quite sure what this involves)