I'm neither.

I believe my inclinations run towards being a Master, as submission doesn't do much for me. But outside of a few attempts with past lovers, I've never taken these inclinations very far. I've yet to find a partner who preferred me to express that side.

I think after my divorce, I need deep emotional content (not sex) before I can share myself (that means sex) with a partner. That's a tricky thing to develop with someone you want to get a little rough with.

When I write as a man, I'm dominant. When I write as a woman, I'm submissive. I don't *believe* I have trouble reconciling the two, but as I never write female dominant, male submissive, well, you do the math.