There is actually a very positive statement about the heroines resisting, enduring and never giving in (okay, some sometimes they do *grin*) ...... Strong women can be admired by men only if men truly have the upper hand? *wink*
So true. Very well said. In terms of BDSM fiction I love stong, intelligent women particularly in a M/f setting. I couldn't bear to have a brainless, spineless heroine. Her plight is just so much more interesting than the Master's, even though I speak as a definite M. As you say 'an interesting duality'.

especially since generally the women are in control of the men anyway. *grin*
Hmmm, not sure about that one