I am having some trouble

[icey]

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try changing any profiles, edit posts or even ask the mod if they may be removed,you could try and apologise/explain but its probably a bit pointless now admitting to any Doms you've spoken with that you've changed your mind, i suspect they'll have given up on you (no offence) they'll have got the message at least i would imagine any sensible and serious Dom will have.

if your a bit unsure about the Domme 'role' too then be honest in profiles,posts and messages think seriously about what you actually do want and if you come to the conclusion that it is what you want then go slowly.

i have to say im with just_annie on this and would be very uncomfortable and not very confident with someone who didnt appear to be confident and comfortable with themelves and respect other Doms.