Again thank you to all who have replied. Kate your signature about women and cats is just sooo spot on, crazy girl I'm gla dthe trial was a mock one we've got enough bloody Englishmen over here and there is a sign at all our International airports saying "Fuck Off we're full", and butterfly slave yes, writing does that for me too. It is good to know nice people like you are watching over me.

A special hug for the whisperer who has been there in my mind since this whole saga began and I dare say will be there when it ends or fizzles out and I rise like the Pheonix, reborn to start anew.