Ok, I have sat back and looked at this long enough and decided to put my two cents in.

I do feel that online can be very fulfiling, but can become unfulfilling to some. I have had mostly internet. To me internet is very mental and that is the kind of person I am. (YES! I'm mental lol) The mental domination is more fulfilling, to me, than the physical....NOT saying I don't like it. The physical scenes I have been in have been very much fun and exciting.

I have not had an actual "real life" experience yet (other than playing with my Sir a couple of times); which I desire more than anything. I do feel that once you start desiring more of the physical then the internet becomes unfulfilling. Some reach that point others don't and are perfectly content with interent....nothing wrong with that.

To answer Ruby's question....to me, real life is the actual physical interaction between the two.

subwife