Please no! Don't close this thread! Contracts and contract negotiation are something very dear to me in terms of D/s. I'm a creature of honor and to be bound by my word to someone means a lot to me.

I also tend to be a very independent, outgoing woman. I'm poly and very, very careful to give others their space and expect to have mine respected as well. I like time for myself.

That said, I love to obsess over the smallest details of pleasing a Domme... bathing her, dressing her, cleaning for her... not just serving her sexually or being tied up. Though those are fun too!

Having a contract with a Dominant gives me a way to put in writing and agree upon just how I may obsess and what the limits and expectations of that obsession are. The contract allows me to let go... to obsess and not feel guilty about it because it's an agreement.

Anyway...

There are two templates on WizDomme that you may find useful. I don't like the 100 Percent Submission Contract very much, but that's my taste. I dig the Temporary Submission Contract though. It's what I use as a base for the contracts I draw up with my own submissives.

Here is a Sample Contract from me. It was one of the last contracts I did with one of my life partners. I edited it only a bit for posting here, taking out our full names and what not.

I also found this one on the net some time ago. It's lengthy. I'm unsure of the source.

You may also wish to consider Slave kas' contract. It has a few good points not covered well in the others.

Hmm... that's all I can think of at the moment. I hope this helps.