Quote Originally Posted by Heather_21
Ok, well I don't have much of an opinion on this one because I haven't really experienced either one. But I'm just assuming that R/L would be more fun lol
Well heather, this is just the whole point, you can't assume that for all. My situation is a bit more obtuse, so let me describe fantassy's. She has gone back to college for studies for a better future and its damned demanding, but to help subsidise this, she also works part time. She really has no time in her life for a fulltime b/f, let alone a demanding dom. Online suits fantassy just now, its something she can schedule with the rest of her busy life, she would not be able to schedule a r/l dom, and so her choices are limited to online or pass it all up. Which would you pick?

For my own reasons, I am also happy just to be online right now, and so we both provide each other a need without pushing past what we are capable of giving.

Its ideal for us and most importantly, it works for us.

Now, if we didn't have other reallife constraints, would we prefer to be doing this together in R/L? To be honest, I haven't a clue, because that is not something we even discuss since its not a real option. fantassy is like you, new and learning, but she is fitting this in with the rest of her busy schedule, but experiencing a bit of 'hands on' training and I try my best not to steal extra time to impact her studies. From what I can see, if fantassy is serious about maintaining her studies (and I know she is) her choices were online or nothing. So in that context, online is definitely heeps more fun

Brosco