Nice one Brosco. The day we don't see snide comments about the insignicance of online relationships will be the time threads such as this are no longer required.

I don't lie awake too much worrying about what people think, but as with many things, I don't like to see new & inexperienced people getting one side of an argument.

I have a 'straight' wife who I love very much, but who isn't there for me in this part of my life. I can do a few days of R/L play with someone from overseas, but if I had a regular R/L thing I'd be tempted to cheat, which isn't OK in my book.

So true that it's different. There's nothing like actually tying someone's hands behind their back, but you miss so much in my opinion. That's just me- we're all different. Imagine have an online thing & being illiterate?
Imagine being lacking in imagination?
What if you had a bad memory? (Oh no, I forgot the nipple clamps, she's been wearing them all day)

It's not for everyone- my dream girl & I had a bit of a go at an online D/s thing & it was hopeless. It's a special thing between two people, whether online or R/L. I guess if my wife kicks me out for talking to women so much I'll go to the States & try the R/L thing- that's why she's my dream girl.

I'd still have my girls online though.


Tojo