Makes sense Tojo.....
Once I was told I was disobedient when I first met a dom and asked questions. That is me I inquire about everything. Mostly because I am still new to everything. It's not that I am being disobedient it is because I want to learn. Plus, what IS wrong with asking questions? I beleive the more questions I ask the more I learn of the dom and frankly, why would I submit if I don't know or trust the dom?
My Sir and I have been friends now for a year. He has been my Dom for eight months. I still ask questions and he answers them with no hesitation or blaming of disobedience. I do notice that I don't ask so many question as I used to because I have gotten to know him through our interaction and learning him not only as a Dom but also as a person. Sir has also been instrumental in my self discovery and learning more about myself.
Now that I have Daddy, I get to learn new things, not only about him but also about myself. I love the two different personalities of these two Doms and how each brings out different feelings and emotions in me.
If it weren't for questions and persistant learning I would never know either of them for who they are and appreciate them like I do.