
Originally Posted by
Brosco
I am a strong advocate of mentors in D/s relationships, but I also want to clearly define what I think a mentor is. A Mentor has one task, and one task alone, and that is to help a subbie get their thoughts in order to be able to go back to their Dom/me with logical discussion points, not just confused ramblings. A mentor does not offer opinion about relationships, nor training, nor any form of discipline. They are an ear to help another verbalise and get their own questions together for the Dom. A mentor should never provide an answer. The answer must come from the Dom or from the subbie's own decision.
So when things go a little strange - where do you run?
Brosco