Quote Originally Posted by smackers
... a come down? After nearly 5 days of almost constant stimulation, both via msn when he's at work and from the minute he walks through the door, I feel as though I'm on a "downer" similar to the after effects of a drug or alcohol binge.... does anyone else experience this?

BTW - the above isn't the norm (hah we wish) - we're just going through a mega-horny stage at the moment

There is nothing unusual about what you experience and is quite normal after heightened mental stimulation. Soldiers also suffer such a thing after the stress and excitement of fighting.

What you experience is like a downer after drugs because that is what BDSM is, mental heroin. Forget all the fancy talk about spiritual connection etc. This is our drug.