Gerrisxy,

Have you considered changing your ring to a bar? The trouble you are having may be caused by the fact that rings tend to move around when they are manipulated. This will move the bead away from your clit. I don't know that you will be any happier with a bigger ring either. I think you will find you have the same problem. A bar on the other hand doesn't allow the bead to move very far off of its intended target.

I have a bar in my hood piercing and I am very happy with it. It isn't too fancy but it does what it was intended to do.

I hope this is helpful and no matter what you do I hope that you end up getting the results you were looking for.

eviana