lol Well it won't be me. I avoid arguments about what a "true" sub/dom/switch/whatever is like I avoid dogs with foam covered muzzles.That being said (and I am fully aware that there is many nice people who will need to point out that this is totally un-true), all true Dominants I met in Real life have at some point in their life, or still do, submit to someone, and learned what it means to be on that end of spectrum.