MY Current SO hasn't a clue

[Ozme52]

My Girl and I have been dating for some time and we have joked about some SM roles. I have even attempted to steer her towards some erotic literature and movies. I just dont think she is getting the hints. She is willing to try new things as long as we go slow. I am trying to overcome my impatience and was wondering if anyone has any advice. A particular story, movie, website that might ease her into a BDSM lifestyle??

Please help!
John

So I have to ask... and do so here rather than appear to interfere directly within your personal ad...

Looking for an exclusive online relationship with a female who is curious but not experienced in the role of submissive...I have had very little personal and online experience with the dominant role. I am looking to learn and expericence something new. Because of my job and lifestyle I am totally currently unavailable for meeting in real life. I need some one to share my curiosities and fantasies with. Only serious inquiries please!!

J

If you wish to delve into this without your own SO, why are you eschewing the opportunity to connect with an experienced submissive? One who could teach you a few things.

I ask because it befuddles me that being inexperienced yourself, by you own words, you would deny both yourself and this potential sub the opportunity to avoid common mistakes.