We're going to cut out all this sexist crap right now before we get the next male vs. female debate going on in these forums. Yes, I'm a guy. Oh no. Heaven forbid.

However, communication is jey on BOTH sides of any relationship, BDSM or otherwise. The way to approach subjects is to talk about them. Don't believe me? Try shutting up for awhile and see how your partner reacts.

And yes, limits are there to be pushed. What else would you need limits for? Now, hard limits are one thing, but soft limist are another. Like I have said in many posts before this, leave your mind open, because the thing that makes you go eww today might make you go ohh in six months.

So, be polite, be nice, limit your responses to the topic at hand, knock off the female-superiority rhetoric and try reading peoples' posts for what they are, rather than looking for something to be offended by.