Hard limit questionaire for both Doms and subs to help them find long term partners

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I thought I would give this a try


Abrasion: no 3
Age play: no 0
Anal sex: yes 5
Anal plugs (small): yes 5
Anal plugs (large): yes 3
Anal plug (public, under clothes): yes 5
Animal roles: no 0 *
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): no 4
Asphyxiation: NO hard limit
Auctioned for charity: no 3 I have self esteem issues I don't know how I would feel about it really until I experienced it
Bathroom use control: yes 2 I am not a big fan of it, although I do try hard *
Bestiality: no 0 * I would make this a hard limit, but I don't really have a problem with it
Beating (soft): no 5
Beating (hard): no 3 I don't know how much pain I can actually take, but I would like to find out
Blindfolds: yes 5
Being serviced (sexual): yes 5
Being bitten: yes 5
Breast/chest bondage: yes 5 I have only done this on my own, so I can't really guage as to how it would really feel, however I would still like it.
Breath control: no 0 * I would like to try, but I have a panic attack when I have to hold my breath.
Branding: no 1 I don't know why, but I like the idea of this, I am unsure though how much I would like it
Boot worship: no 0 It does nothing for me at all, I don't understand it
Bondage (light): yes 5 again I have only tried it out on myself
Bondage (heavy): no 3 I want to try, but I would have to start off slow with it
Bondage (multi-day): no 3 same as heavy bondage
Bondage (public, under clothing): yes 5 I like to wear ropes under clothing, and even sometimes accidentally show it
Bondage and Sex: no 5 I would like nothing better than to try this
Breast whipping: yes 5, again on my own, you can't hit yourself as hard though
Brown showers (scat): NO hard limit
Cages (locked inside of): no 5 I would love the opportunity to do this
Caning: no 1, I want to try it, but don't know where my pain threshold is
Catheterization: NO hard limit
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): no 5 I would like this too, even with some bondage
Chastity belts: no 0 I want to try, but I think that I would have to start off in small doses
Chauffeuring: no 5 I would like doing this
Choking: no 0 I can't say it's a hard limit, I would try it though first to see how it felt
Clothespins breast/nipples: yes 5
Clothespins labia lips/clit: yes 5
Clothespins body: yes 5
Cock worship: no 0 * I don't really understand it
Collars (worn in private): yes 4, I have now come to the understanding of what it means to wear a collar, I would loveto wear one now for the right reasons
Collars (worn in public): yes 3, it all depends on the type of collar to be worn.
Competitions (with other Subs): no 0, I would say it is a hard limit, but I could do it just because, I feel like I am in a competition with other submissives all the time anyway
Corsets (wearing): no 0 I am not a fan of corsets, I don't like them
Cuffs: no 5
Cuffs (metal): no 5
Cutting: no 0 * It doesn't hold appeal
Dilation: no 3 I would like to try
Double penetration: yes 5
Electricity: no 0 I am on the fence with this, I would have to at least try it
Enemas: no 0 I am deathly afraid of enemas, but want to try them with a person who will be able to be with me
Enforced chastity: NO hard limit, I don't think I would be a very happy person with that, although I should try it first
Examinations (physical): no 0 *I wouldn't like it
Exercise (forced/required): yes 5 I do better when I am forced into it
Exhibitionism (friends): yes 5, but only a few friends
Exhibitionism (strangers): no 3, it depends on the situation involved
Eye contact restrictions: no 5
Face slapping: yes 5
Fantasy abandonment: no 5
Fantasy rape: no 5
Fantasy forced deep throat: no 3
Fantasy forced cunt licking: no 5
Fantasy forced rape anal: no 5
Fantasy gang-rape: no 2
Fisting (anal): no 0
Fisting (vaginal):no 3
Flogging: no 3
Following hand signals: no 4
Following orders: yes 5
Foot worship: no 0
Forced dressing: no 0
Forced homosexuality: no I am bisexual, so it doesn't count
Forced masturbation: no 5
Forced nudity (private): yes 5
Forced nudity (around others): no 5 it would depend on the situation
Forced servitude: no 3
Full head hoods: no 0
Gags (cloth): yes 3
Gags (penis shaped): no 1
Gags (rubber): no 2
Gags (tape): no 2
Gates of Hell: NA
Genital sex: yes 5
Given away to another Dom (temp): no 5
Given away to another Domme (temp): no 5
Given away to another Dom (perm): NO hard limit, I don't understand this
Given away to another Domme (perm): NO hard limit, I don't understand this
Golden showers: no 5
Greetings rituals: no 5
Hairbrush spankings: no 5
Hair pulling: yes 5
Hand jobs (giving): yes 5
Hand jobs (receiving): NA
Harems (serving w/other subs): no 0
Harnessing (leather): no 3
Harnessing (rope): yes 3
Having food chosen for you: yes 3
Having clothing chosen for you: yes 3
Head (giving cunnilingus): yes 5
Head (giving fellatio): yes 4
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): yes 5
Head (receiving fellatio male only): NA
High heel worship: no 0
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): no 0
Hot oils (on genitals): no 3, have to try it first
Hot waxing: yes 5
Housework (doing): yes 5
Human puppy dog: no 0
Humiliation (private): yes 5!!!!
Humiliation (public): no 1
Hypnotism: no 0
Ice cubes: yes 5 - vaginal 5 anal 0
Infantilism: no 0
Initiation rites: no 2
Injections: no 0
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: no 3
Interrogations: no 3
Kidnapping: no 4
Kneeling: yes 5
Leather clothing: no 0
restraints chains: no 4
restraints leather: no 2
restraints rope: no 4
Lectures for misbehavior: yes 3
Licking (non-sexual): no 1
Manacles & Irons: no 3
Manicures (giving): no 0
Massage (giving): NO hard limit
Massage (receiving): NO hard limit
Medical scenes: no 0

Modeling for erotic photos: no 2
Modeling for erotic videos: no 2
Mouth bits: no 1
Mummification: no 0
Nipple clamps: yes 5
Nipple cloths pins: yes 5
Nipple weights: yes 5
Oral/anal play (rimming): yes 5
Over-the-knee spanking: no 5
Orgasm denial: yes 2
Orgasm control: yes 2
Outdoor scenes: no 1
Outdoor sex: no 1
Phone sex (serving Dom): no 2*
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): no 1*
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): no 2
Piercing (permanent): NO hard limit
Prison scenes: no 0
Pony slave: no 0
Public exposure: no 0
Public tasks: no 0 it depends on the task involved
Pussy/cock whipping: no 0
Pussy worship: no 0
Riding crops: no 1
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): no 5
Rituals: yes 4
Religious scenes: no 0
Restrictive rules on behavior: yes 5
Rubber/latex clothing: no 0
Rope body harness: yes 5
Saran wrapping: no 2
Scratching – getting: no 1
Scratching – giving: no 1
Sensory deprivation: no 5
Serving: no 5
Serving as art: no 0
Serving as ashtray: NO hard limit
Serving as furniture: no 5
Serving as a maid: no 3
Serving as toilet: no 2
Serving as waitress/waiter: no 1
Serving orally (sexual): yes 5
Serving other Doms (supervised): no 3*
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): no 0
Sexual deprivation (short term): no 0
Sexual deprivation (long term): no 0
Shaving (body hair): NA, well I have to shave some things, it's not like I am doing it special
Shaving (head hair): NO hard limit
Shaving (pubic hair): yes 1 I would rather wax
Sleep deprivation: yes 0
Sleep-sacks: no 0
Slutty clothing (private): no 0
Slutty clothing (public): no 0
Spanking in private: no 5
Spanking in public: no 0
Spanking in bdsm parties: no 5
Spanking pleasure: no 5
Spandex clothing: no 0
Speech restrictions (when, what): yes 2
Speculums (Anal): no 1
Speculums (vaginal): no
Spreader bars: no 5
Standing in corner: yes 5
Stocks (adjustable): no 5
Stocks (fixed): no 5
Straight jackets: no 3
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): yes 5
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): yes 5
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): yes 5
Strapping (full body beating): no 3
Suspension (upright); no 3
Suspension (inverted): no 3
Suspension (horizontal): no 3
Supplying new partners for Dom: yes 0
Swallowing semen: yes 5
Swallowing urine: yes 5
Swapping (with one other couple): no 3
Swinging (multiple couples): no 2
Tattooing: no 2
Teasing: yes 2
Tickling: NO NO NO hard limit
Triple penetration: no 5*
Triple penetration by 3 males: no 5*
Uniforms: no 0
Including others: no 0*
Vaginal dildo: yes 3
Verbal humiliation: yes 5
Vibrator on genitals: yes 5
Voyeurism (watching others): yes 5
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): no 3
Video (watching others): yes 5
Video (recordings of you): yes 0
Water torture: no 3
Wearing symbolic jewelry: no 5
Whipping: no 3
Wooden paddles: no 5
Wrestling:no 0

Most things I haven't yet tried, I rated on how much I wanted to try them or the appeal of wanting to do them