Ok here goes... i'm a sub to my Master, and on our first night together He gave me my "safeword" right away, one that would Always be in effect. i've heard about them, and appreciated that He cared enough about it to make sure i had one and Knew it. However... i've realised that i'm extremely reluctant to Use my safeword. It feels almost like i'm failing him if i use it, even though i know he'd be upset if i was Truly uncomfortable with something and should have used it but Didn't. my question for you, is 1) whether or not anyone else has felt like this or similar, and 2) how you've dealt with it either yourself (if your a sub) or For/with your sub (if your a Dom) Thanx all for reading.

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