What does NO mean to you?

[snowflake]

I don't think that there are many (if any!) subs who abuse their safe words. I would never use mine just because I feel uncomfortable or am cranky or whatever. As far as I can go, I will go -- it's in my nature to want to please, and judging from what I read many subs feel very similarly to that. Anyway, just a thought...if your word of release works for you, that's perfect. I just don't think that having a safe word sets the scene for having somebody abuse it -- I apologise if I read this wrong.

And no nos? I guess I am a lucky girl, it's only no buts for me. I'm bad at it, though. I could bite my tongue off every single time, but it just slips out and...yeah well. No body's perfect.

im with you Polaris... I never abuse my safe word that would make me feel inadequate to let the Dom down

and your right on the biting of the tongue my record would be just as bad

winks

hugs
snowflake