I was thinking about this question and it's sort of hard for me to answer. Like in delia's relationship, there is always an undercurrent of D/s between my master and me. We never have sex without some sort of "kinky" component, like what Sir Russel described. Sometimes if there's no time for an all out scene Sir will describe a scene while we have sex. I'll offer up suggestions for the fictional scene and it's a good opportunity to test out new ideas. Between that and an all out scene there is a continum, so it's hard to say exactly how often we have a scene. I'd say we go all out about once a week though.