What is her build, is she large?Originally posted by MasterTom
Hello, I've been a lurker here for about half a year now and just this week registered.
Now some background:
Me & my girlfriend have a nice relationship going on where she submits herself to me to do as I please. And I've had many good sessions with her, I've tied her into few very stringent hogties even and she has not complained.
But now just last weekend I suggested something that she denied from me outright. She said and I quote: "I would rather leave than wear a corset"
This has really left me speechless. I haven't been able to talk to her for the whole week and have been wondering if it was something I said that made her say that.
The thing is... I have to admit I get a aching hard-on by just watching pictures of corseted women and I really would like to see my SO in one too.
It is not like she couldn't wear one, she has some _very_ tight PVC tops that in my opionion almost are corsets, just without the boning.
I hope this community can share some info on about how to approach the situation.
could she be sensitive about her body and you asking for a corset could make her feal inferer, like her waist is not thin enough.
back off let her know that you love her and would not do any thing to hurt her.... let her know that you love her. And not just her body. get her some longeray and work your way around the corset. introduce it slowly. Get her a waist cincher that is not to tight when she exepts that work your way to the good stuff.
take it slow.