Well, as Angie Dickenson once said, "I don't dress for men, I undress for them."

Vanilla, or any other kind of relationship, I don't do the chasing. Vanilla men have approached me and it's my choice as to whether or not I want to get to know them better and Dominant men have contacted me - again it was my choice as to whether or not I wanted to get to know them better. I've never pursued anyone and doubt I ever will.