Okay I should be getting fucked right now but so far nada! *grr* So I have a few minutes. *sigh*

BDSM to me is about finding someone you can trust and building a relationship of mutual respect with them. In my case, it would be about finding a Dominant because that is what my soul cries out for.

I prefer sex with my scenes but if the Dominant in question didn't do that I think I could not only make do but truly enjoy a strictly D/s situation.

I would never do this however unless my husband was okay with it and I got my courage up.

In the meantime the occasional spankings and other rough play I can get from my husband, along with my fantasies and online activities will have to do.

I am feeling closer to attending a munch though.

If I have not covered what you were looking for just ask more questions.

And I might ask you one.

What is your philosophy of BDSM?

Fury