Right, my thoughts exactly. I'm attending my first "city" Munch next week. However, it's more of a BDSM scene. It's just funny, that the authors tend to talk about "running into" someone who is doing 'such and such', almost as if they (the ethical sluts) were common types of folks.

I guess I was just wondering if it's because they live in places like San Fran. In my years of traveling around, I have never hidden my sexuality (in concept), or desires for intimate contact. I always get a "hey, great idea!", but then, nobody actually wants to practice it. (The open relationships, I mean, not necessarily sex with me.)

Even the most forward thinkers are very closed to the open sex ideal. Pity, as most of them are from the hippy days, when they practiced that lifestyle without qualms. Go figure.

Anyway, I think my question is this. Is this book a tad outdated, in practice?