You may be a switch or you may just enjoy being teased. One thing to remember is that no man can cum as often as a woman who is multi-orgasmic. There is no shame in that.

That is not saying to quit the teasing if you enjoy it but it also sounds like you may be a little into humiliation and that seems to point to submission or switch as you have already been told. In any case enjoy it all while you can. Anything that you both enjoy can't be wrong, can it?