Polaris: "No more being abducted by bandits ... " Can you explain a little more what has replaced this type of fantasy?
Oh, umm, I'll try. The point I was trying to make is that the fantasies have moved from the 'fantasy realm' into the 'reality realm'. Today, a fantasy is more likely to be reflecting (and possibly) elaborating on an actual scene...or fantasising about something that I would like to try but haven't done yet...or putting together different pieces to create something new. Fantasies today are more likely to involve specific persons, as opposed to the powerful, dominant strangers.

Come to think about it, my fantasies today have much less of a "force" element and more of a "consensual" touch than they used to have. This is maybe because I am much more at ease with what I am now than I used to be -- and know myself much better. Like, you don't need to have a bandit tie you down forcefully if you can admit you WANT somebody to tie you down force- but playfully. Wanting to be dominated is not exactly what society tells modern, emancipated women to want...so there's some potential struggle in that. I went on a tangent, didn't I? Hope that makes some sense