That thread made me a tad uncomfortable.I think the part I found most disturbing was "fat pig". Says a lot for how depraved I am. Call me anything but don't dare call me fat. Hmmm.....
Seriously though, I guess the only way we would know if this is in fact abuse is to know the couple first hand. But being called useless and dirty will never arouse me. I would find it extremely upsetting. However, being called "slut" or "whore" is a high compliment coming from my Master.
As for the wet jeans pic... that is a toally different story. I know many BDSM couples that get off over having the sub wet herself, even in public. That is a whole nother kink! ~blizz~