Like I posted in another thread "I am a touch and feel Dom".
I try every toy out on myself before I use it on a sub. I have found out that cloverclamps hurts like a MOFO and have only used them occationally on a sub that liked that kind of pain.
and yet I have no interest in being a sub.
In my opinion men have just as much expectations on them as women has but they are a little different.