Well said, Mad. As mentioned above, ‘If you are interested in doing it’ and ‘subject to his consent’ and ‘It’s allright to say: this isn’t really me, can we try something else?’
slo18, should you and your man turn out not to be interested in any ideas accumulated in this thread, well – somebody else might. That’s the nice thing about this being a public forum.
So what did he say? What are your interests? Is it all still a big question mark? Is it more ‘active submissive’ ideas you are looking for?