sounds like he has a latent sub side to him. as a sub myself, i would hope someone would start with binding my legs and arms--just so i couldn't object too much. and since i have fantasies regarding cbt, i would hope someone would take my cock and balls and give them a good working over. or put them in a chastity cage. or fuck me in the ass. hopefully, all this would make me aroused beyond belief and i would spontaneously cum. then you could make me clean it up--with only my tongue.

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