Thank you guys so much for the responses and ideas!Also, because of certain PMs that I have received, I feel that I need to clarify that I don't really have a 'Master.' My so-called 'Master' is nothing more than a guy that I like who gave his heart to another. We are close friends and have talked enough for me to know the things that he is into and how he likes things done. Sigh, I am merely there it seems to listen to him talk about the love of his life as I dream on. So when I fanatasize about submitting to a lover, I think of him for I have no one else at this time. So my 'Master' is nothing more than a fantasy, just like the rest of my love life...pathetic, I know...sniff.