1. How old were you? i read books on torture and was fascinated by it pre-puberty

2. Who or what opened your eyes to BDSM? writings

3. Did you get to experience it at a club or party? i have not been able to experience it yet. i am shy and scared about being outed. live-in is not into the bdsm stuff, but i want to explore.

4. What was your physical and emotional reactions when you saw your first
scene? desire, but i've only seen such scenes in movies

5. Are there any people on this forum that are vanilla and participating or lurking to find out if they should take the plunge? definitely, but i am not lurking now. i want to take the plunge but am concerned about safety issues. :atm: