1. How old were you?
16
2. Who or what opened your eyes to BDSM?
A boy/friend who was (much) older introduced me to it. I loved it, then forgot how much I liked it until about 2 months ago, when I decided to read "the bottoming book" and got "the topping book" for my husband.

3. Did you get to experience it at a club or party?
I've never been to either. I'm shy.
4. What was your physical and emotional reactions when you saw your first
scene?
I've never seen a live scene.

5. Are there any people on this forum that are vanilla and participating or lurking to find out if they should take the plunge?
This is my first post. I don't feel like a vanilla person, but I've definitely been lurking... trying to learn as much as I can, and not overwhelm my husband, who is unfamiliar with all this.