Is it correct to assume that your friend is a Christian. likely a protestant? A lot depends on her denomination's view of sexual practice.Originally Posted by subcami
Yeshua (Jesus) preached tolerance and acceptance; the Golden Rule states a very clear and simple philosophy of treating others as you would like to be treated. Respecting the needs and eesires of another human being is a Good Thing. BDSM and related activities are only "wrong" if they violate a person's right to say "no".
If your friend's chruch is teaching anything different, then their doctrine is not based on the words of Jesus as recorded in scripture.