1. How old were you? Mid to late 20's

2. Who or what opened your eyes to BDSM?Vanilla sex often left me unsatisfied but I never knew why until I started reading erotica, and it was the BDSM books that made me the most excited so I experimented a little, and then I doscoeverd the internet which opened up whole new avenues.


3. Did you get to experience it at a club or party? I've never been to a club or party

4. What was your physical and emotional reactions when you saw your first scene? Agaian, only experienced first hand opposed to witnessing others.

5. Are there any people on this forum that are vanilla and participating or lurking to find out if they should take the plunge? Given some of the stories I have read I think I'm vanilla to most here but probably too kinky for others. But I'm new, and I'm still learning and exploring and finding my boundaries.